The Art of letting things Happen

 

   The art of letting things happen

You might have learned a lot of life skills throughout your life but may not have learned peace skills.  Just like life skills, peace skills also matter a lot in one's life because they will tell you how to lead life, fight obstacles, will make you more patient. so today let's learn a peace skill that is the art of letting things happen.

when the cloudburst and it is sprinkling
from the Sky, it reaches the wet eyes and
they cannot hold for too long  &
 cry long in the pain for better to happen,
but all we can do now is to let it happen.

What is the art of letting things happen? In simple words when you are stuck in a condition and you know that you cannot do anything except letting it happen, but you are still persistent to accept it. In our life, we all want things to be in our influence, and sometimes when they go opposite to what we want them, then we cannot let them happen because our mind didn't allow us to. It may sound easy to do but, it is way more challenging than you think. We, humans, suppose ourselves to be the most superior creature which is incorrect, and we want everything to go positive, right, and perfect. We, humans, try to mess up with the system of nature, and in return when nature gives us solutions, we tend to take them as problems and that's what human nature is.  We all are fucked up by the deeds that we do and then we blame nature.

How to practice this Art?

 First thing First Accept yourself; we don't understand the power of self-support. The time when you will start accepting the way you are in every fucking situation then only you can learn this art. Accepting means having a reality check with yourself, see your flaws and qualities, and accept because Nothing is flawless, but you are since it’s all your perspective to look at things. So go and first learn to accept yourself. Now if you have learned it so let's talk about how to practice this art.

  Start focusing on these two commodities in your life, first on what you need in your life but not what you want. There is a lot of difference between the thing you need and what you want. You may want a luxurious car but, you need a comfortable small car that is under your budget. Secondly, focus on the consequences of your actions. Before doing anything just think for once that what will be the consequences of your actions.No matter Whenever wherever whatever you do should keep these two factors as a part of your decision making.

Cry when you need it, this is a very misunderstood topic people think that crying will make you weak, but those people are morons because crying makes you stronger. When you get through something and you have no option to do then cry alone, it's okay but don't let anyone misunderstand you. Crying will make you feel a little less stressful but that doesn't mean that you should always cry. Cry and then take an oath with yourself that " It is the first and the last time I am weeping over this because from tomorrow this will be my biggest strength." and this is how you can learn this art with great ease. 

The last and most simple way to practice this is by showing gratitude. We all are not thankful for what we have right now but instead, we shed tears over the thing that we don't have. Practicing gratitude helps you feel more satisfied and concord, the simplest way to practice gratitude is to spend time with family, you should be so thankful to the supernatural God that you have your family right there with you.  So go and practice some gratitude and by practicing all these entities, one day you will learn this art of letting things happen.

 Now a question arises that why it is so important? 

So here is your answer:  According to me the art of letting the thing happen it's the second toughest peace skill as the first one is the art of letting go [ do let us know in comments that you want a detailed article on it]. We all are fucked up in our lives but learning this art makes you more patient and will provide you tranquillity as you will witness things going wrong but still, you will be persistent to take any action because Patience is the most sophisticated thing.

it will let you understand the importance of acceptance of the situation that doesn't go as per our will and you will become more peaceful than ever before because now you will be knowing that this specific situation is not in my control so I should better let it happen furthermore I should be prepared for what's going to happen next and should stay serene.  

Thank you 

stay safe 

Loads of strength

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