Take a note of these for 2022

We have come to the end of 2021 and are glad that to know that you survived it too.  For everyone this year was kinda complex as always. Not all days were good and not all were bad. Someday we had anxiety and someday we have hope and some days were unknown and that's what makes us human. But the chance to become better never ends. And honestly, for me this year was pretty messed up, I experienced many new things some of them taught me life while some taught me the gravity of death. So Here I'm Alive at the end of 2021 and telling you to take note of these things for 2022 for becoming a better you each day.

Life is about being

The biggest thing I learned this year was that life isn't about having plans or celebrating your achievement.  You always wanted to clear that toughest exam and you prepared for it so hard or worked hard for that graduation degree but now in the end even if you had passed that exam or got the degree, you have nothing to reminisce about it now, except success. And that's what I wanted to tell you that life is about being in the moment, it's about living every moment of your journey, not waiting for your destination to celebrate. The moment you realize that life is more than a series of wanting and having is the day you won.

Practicality is important

I did some surveys to know what people learned this year for becoming better than this was one of the best of all of them. The new year resolutions that humans made are so contradictory to themselves, but they don't realize it. People who never worked out want to start workout for 1 hour daily for the upcoming 365 days and that's fucking stupid because it isn't realistic. They made these resolutions based on the benefits and advantages that they have read about it. And that is the theory part of your resolution and when you do it in the gym you then realize all its pros and cons. You realize that giving yourself a break is necessary, you realize it's the motto and you understand it better each day. With every workout session, you have more knowledge, and you became your own master. And even apart from this, practicality is important for leading a satisfied life because there are many time where you can't really rely on your emotions as they suck. I'm not telling you to be heartless but to be more practical about things and life ! 

Anxiety is a must evil

We always fear anxiety as we have claustrophobia, and we are locked in a room. If you remember your high school physics, do you remember the term friction? It is a kinda force that opposes the motion, but it is also the reason why we can drive the car on the road. So just like this anxiety is friction and it's a necessary evil for your life. We must change the way we think, and I know that anxiety can be dangerous and need serious medication but the normal stress and anxiety that we are afraid of are not bad, it is what made us who we are. You remember that job interview in which you were nervous as fuck, and you still made it because that level of nervousness and anxiety helped you to perform better. But anxiety is way more complex topic so we will understand this in a better way in upcoming ones.

Your only priority is you

We have become these puppets of social media that whatever shit is on trending is hell good for us. I was so fed up with this so-called social media pressure which is a hypothetical concept in every aspect. I quit the social media platform which was not letting me become my priority. When you're young and you realize the gravity of death then you understand that the only thing you should be worried about right now is yourself. And All other things that mattered to you will automatically become good. Just a little bit of time for yourself can make you feel nice about yourself as a person. It can be anything a daily journal, a nice walk, or even cooking a meal can be a self-care task.

Happiness is a myth

you can't be happy every time and it's good. Just for a second think about you happily spending one day with everything going right and now every day you woke up same shit happens everything goes right. And believe me that shit is scary. Happiness is not laughing all time instead happiness is a state of satisfaction, a state you feel whenever when you do your favorite work. Doesn't matter what you are doing right now but if you are satisfied with your decisions in life then you are happy right now. The life you are living should be satisfying at last to you.

And at the last, I understood that

Lukewarm is a waste

If you are interested to do something, then go do it no matter what with great enthusiasm. Go embrace it, live it, and most importantly don't think about what others think. Lukewarm is no good either be an enthusiast about it or do not think about it at all.

And once the absolutely great writer , sir William Shakespeare said;

"This is above all: to thine own self be true"

He summarised my entire article in one little sentence.

And with this I want you to become just better not perfect but the better version of yourself. This article is all about what I learned this year and if this was helpful for you then we have done our work. At the last a very happy and healthy new year to everyone! So grateful for your support and we want you to let us know if you liked this article or not in the comments.

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