Life happens

 LIFE HAPPENS 

See people even though we all have different definitions of life but we can still ground to this one common part that it has a tendency to happen. Life happens. In Fact it is happening right now. It's happening all around us at every instinct and the thing is that we can not even stop it. All we do is to get through either willingly or unwillingly. I think it's high time to dig deep into this.

Starting with the basics, life is nothing but a series of events good, bad, neutral everything. Sometimes they connect and on the others they don't. But in either of them all these events have always been a part of a phase, a peculiar one each time and these phases collectively make what we call LIFE. At each point in life you are in one of your phases which are connected to the events that are happening or perhaps I Should say that phase defines the events and not the other way around because in the end when you look back and realise how each and every thing was meant to happen for that part of your life. Now the only thing that bothers the shit out of us is that we don't know what the phase is about when it's happening. And that's why we just always look at tomorrow to connect things. The interesting thing is that phases don't have to be equally good or bad nor they have to be of the same time period because if they would then they won't be unique anymore. 

You honey right now is in one of your phases that you don't know what it's about. Everyday you wake up, you are getting through things. Sometimes the experience is good and someday it's not. But you're still getting it. As each day goes by and time flies things will start to come around. Mark the word start. And when it's time is done, one day you'll realise what this phase was about. It can be about grief, joy, hurt, peace, existence or any possible thing in the world. Perhaps the most important part is still left out, it's that no matter what this part of your life was about, if you do not embrace and accept it, there is always going to a part of you that is unhealed because accepting things meaning to let them be irrespective of your wish for them and this thing honey heals you unknowingly. And the Secret advice is that don't just embrace the sad ones but do embrace the good and happy ones while they last because in life, at times you'll need that sense of content within you When everything around you is nothing but Chaos. 

By any Chance if you were to avoid or for the lack of better words escape that part of phase or not acknowledge it, will always result in something that's worse than the phase itself because here comes the ugly of being, just being alive. If you don't accept it, it will still be there within you but now in some more vulnerable and shaded part. And with time as these unaccepted parts pile up, they are gonna rotten you from inside and only then they will allow you to explode. And as bad as it sounds, believe me the reality is worse.

Reflect on things and life whenever you can. Acknowledge the parts of you that have grown and that haven't. Start being a little more understanding towards yourself rather than just saying that you understand because life is happening and it spares none. So either survive it with grace or just survive at last. Choose your pick love.

Loads of strength

seeking Querencia